Is there Pain from Pleasure, young men struggling with choosing between God and worldly pleasures.

Most people are not aware that pleasure is a problem in this computer age, which shows you how much of a problem pleasure really is. Perhaps the best answer to this question is found in J. C. Ryle’s book Thoughts for Young Men. An extract from the book is found below   Youth is the time … More Is there Pain from Pleasure, young men struggling with choosing between God and worldly pleasures.

How do I cope with sexual abuse at home from one of my family members, who do I Tell?

Summery answer Speak to your parents/ guardian right away Talk to someone, counsellor, psychologist, police Jesus Is the answer, change your mindset to set yourself free You are not alone even if you feel like you are You are not defined by your past You are still beautiful, valuable and lovable Speak to your parents right … More How do I cope with sexual abuse at home from one of my family members, who do I Tell?

My father is always yelling at me for no reason, even when my brother is responsible he always yells at me and never yells at my brother when he does something wrong. He does not like me and I hate him, I don’t know what to do.

Answer in point form God is the heavenly Father who has always loved you and always will Your current situation will improve, be hopeful Talk to your father about your feelings, know how you feel and why you feel that way A big possibility is he loves you but shows his love differently what you understand … More My father is always yelling at me for no reason, even when my brother is responsible he always yells at me and never yells at my brother when he does something wrong. He does not like me and I hate him, I don’t know what to do.

My dad is divorcing my mum and is leaving us for another woman and I don’t know what to do, Why did God allow this to happen to me and to my family?

Your parents still love you despite the divorce In most cases when parents’ divorce each other they will still love their children. Offcourse, parents separating is always hard regardless of whether your parents still love you or not. Some young people never recover from the effects and trauma caused by their parents divorcing. Sadly some … More My dad is divorcing my mum and is leaving us for another woman and I don’t know what to do, Why did God allow this to happen to me and to my family?

Q: I am not sure what to do with my life, I feel lost and unfulfilled. How can I discover what to do in life and where I am going in life?

 It is fitting that you ask such a life changing and eye opening question. Everything you do from this point will affect not only you and your future, but it will also affect the lives of everyone around you including your spouse, children, friends and family. In a nutshell you are trying to find out … More Q: I am not sure what to do with my life, I feel lost and unfulfilled. How can I discover what to do in life and where I am going in life?

Q: I am in my final year of high school and my parents do not allow me to go out for parties with my friends, is this fair

It is definitely frustrating when parents put rules and expectations which may appear unfair. In this case parents have restricted you from going out and partying with your friends. This can early seem unfair, especially if everyone else is going partying except you. However, your first move should be one of understanding why your parents … More Q: I am in my final year of high school and my parents do not allow me to go out for parties with my friends, is this fair

Q: I recently started dating this amazing guy, I actually love him. The problem is I worked in a brothel for a period of 2 years, months before I met this guy. He does not know this part of my life. Should I tell him? if so when and how. I feel ashamed to tell him, I am afraid if I tell him he might breakup with me.

This question presents an all too familiar issue in any new relationship, the issue of skeletons in the closet. Every human being has skeletons in their closet.  Being human means making wrong choices and decisions sometimes. Whenever you enter a new relationship there is always that desire to omit certain things because you want to … More Q: I recently started dating this amazing guy, I actually love him. The problem is I worked in a brothel for a period of 2 years, months before I met this guy. He does not know this part of my life. Should I tell him? if so when and how. I feel ashamed to tell him, I am afraid if I tell him he might breakup with me.

I am 18 years old, I want to take a gamble and leave my country for Hollywood and pursue my dream career in acting, is this a wise move?

It is always good to have dreams and to be willing to go to the enth degree to see your dreams and desires achieved. That is the way to live your life, going hard for the things that you love and are passionate about. There is nothing worse than waking up everyday and going to … More I am 18 years old, I want to take a gamble and leave my country for Hollywood and pursue my dream career in acting, is this a wise move?